DH Is Driving Me INSANE! GRRRR!

DH is driving me insane (if I wasn't already on the borderline). He's going over my calendar multiple times, writing everything down and questioning each appointment. Then, when he was giving me oral instructions for a task I'm to do today, and I asked him to please write them down (and it would have been two sentences worth of effort), he absolutely exploded. Frankly, I'm NOT feeling the love. I'm feeling more like I'm in some Petri dish. I might phone my memory doctor and ask him to have a conversation with DH and explain that writing directions down is EXACTLY what I need done, and that any minor inconvenience ... well, too bad! 

DH either doesn't understand, or simply doesn't care 
that I need written directions when he asks me to 
do something in a particular way. If this persists, 
I'll be contacting my brain doc and asking him to 
call him directly and tell him, AGAIN, that directions 
need to be written out for me. 

I was SO angry. It wasn't that I was asking him to do so much.  I fully understand that he's over his head in tasks to get done so that we can get out of the business, but ... I went back to speak with him at his desk or ask for his help on the sales floor several times yesterday, and all he was doing was playing Bridge on his phone. He wasn't doing anything for the store. So ... I really don't know what to say. I'm pretty much working at the store when I'm there. I take a break with my phone during my lunch, and when I go to the bathroom. That's it. The rest of the time I'm on the sales floor and at the store computers working. He's certainly not working towards getting the store closed if he's playing Bridge on his phone most of the day. 

We each have our own thing that we enjoy doing on our 
cell phones. I love reading on my cell phone - I go through 
a lot of e-books in an average year. He plays Bridge. 

So, there are issues. *sigh*  On the Good Side of events, my replacement skin suit (full body swimsuit) was delivered yesterday and I'm wearing it today. It's lovely - kelp in the ocean with the light filtering down through the fronds. I also love the way the suits fit when I first get them. Like all swim suits, they stretch out through use and the chlorinated water. I took a closer look at my damaged suit too. I think I might take it to my tailor. It's the bottom portion of one leg that got eaten by the water extractor. I think my tailor might be able to cut it off above that point and put in elastic. It won't be as snug (and it'll look weird), but they're VERY expensive suits and it still fits well. I could get another season at least out of it with a decent repair. It might be worth it - I'll try to build a quick trip to the tailor into tomorrow's schedule. 

This is the skin suit I ordered to replace my damaged 
suit. I think it's lovely. Of course it fits like a dream 
because it hasn't started to stretch out yet. I should get 
a good summer's worth of outdoor swimming from it 
before it stretches too much. 

But tomorrow's schedule is a bit crowded. I did phone my orthodontist and get a different appointment with them.  I simply didn't have the time to start with my eye exam in the Southeastern part of the Cities, then drive to the Northern part of the cities for the Orthodontist, and then to the Central part of the Cities for my Radiology appointments, all within four hours. Not with road construction, which is a constant at this time of the year. So, I rescheduled my orthodontic appointment. My wires can remain without glue for another week, it won't harm them (ideally) and I really don't have any choice. 

When it came down to logistics, I figured it was a bit 
tight to get to every appointment on time if I had the 
Orthodontist in the mix. So, I rescheduled him for 
a different date. Now I'll have time to breathe between 
my Eye Doctor appointment and my Radiology appt. 

I'm off to the pool to work some of this frustration out in the water. I hope you have an excellent Tuesday and I'll be back tomorrow before starting my "Very Busy Day" - LOL. Be kind, enjoy your Spring (or Fall) and Slava Ukraini!