Timing is Everything...

The worst arguments arise over a lack of communication and an inability to pay attention to the moods of the other person involved. I knew that I needed to tell my husband that I was in contact with my ex-fiance, but also knew that timing was everything to avoid an explosion of jealousy. (It's a long process to learn that ownership of a person does not transfer with a marriage license.) But I finally managed to fit it into a conversation in a rather flip way on Sunday, and so the worst is over and I am now free to communicate as I see fit. I think that's important, because I'm enjoying finding out about how the last 30 years have been for my ex, and I have always considered him to be a friend. I don't really know why, after marriage, your friends are supposed to be the same sex only. It seems to cut off a lot of people. I've always chosem my friends because they are interesting people. I suppose my DH is lucky because most of my friends are female and he doesn't need to be jealous of them. Jealousy is stupid.

And I am shooting lots of white light and Goddess Bless towards several friends of mine who are having some serious health issues. It's rather like everything has hit the basket at the same time. So - good thoughts to my friends Marilee and VerLaine, and my friend and her husband, Pat and Jon. If you would care to add your white light to mine, please feel free to aid these friends in addition to any others that you may be helping. Tomorrow, I'll be back to creativity, but today....walk a line of love. A little love and kindness can spread a long, long way.